I am old school and come from the VOW world. However, I know times have changed and marriage seems to be more of a civil unity, financial arrangement, or simple convenience these days with dissolution happening at an alarming rate because no one has any tolerance or is willing to work at it any longer. People are lazy. I'm not passing judgement because every situation is different. It takes two to tango and most likely there are problems on both sides if you look closer. Plenty of resurces are avail to work through it, if that is what you want to do.
Top Five Reasons Men Cheat
1. The other person was really hot
2. The other person was really there for them
3. They weren’t getting enough sex from their partner
4. Boredom
5. Their partner wasn’t paying enough attention to them.
As for women, their top excuses are more emotional than physical. Sex isn’t even a reason. hmmm. They share in the infidelity too.
Top Five Reasons Women Cheat
1. Their partner wasn’t paying enough attention to them
2. The other person was really there for them
3.I was having doubts about my relationship
4.The other person was really hot
5. Boredom